๐Ÿ“ฆ The AI Starter Kit

All five resources in one place, in reading order. Hit print and save the whole thing as a single PDF โ€” each resource starts on a fresh page.

โœ… The AI Safety Checklist

Everything the Honesty Files teach, compressed into rules you can check off. Print it, stick it near your computer, and you'll never have to wonder mid-chat whether something is safe to paste or safe to trust.

Before you paste anything

Distilled from What not to paste

  • Run the postcard rule: if you wouldn't write it on a postcard, don't paste it in a chat.
  • Do the 3-second scan first โ€” names to remove? numbers that identify anyone? someone else's private info?
  • Account numbers, passwords, and SSNs stay out. No exceptions, no matter how helpful the chat is being.
  • Medical records and other people's secrets stay out too โ€” even "just to summarize."
  • If your employer would call it confidential, treat the chat window as public.
  • Assume anything pasted is out of your hands โ€” "delete chat" doesn't necessarily mean deleted.

Before you trust an answer

Distilled from The 2-source rule

  • Remember what the machine is doing: predicting likely words, not looking things up.
  • Run the traffic light: ๐ŸŸข drafts and brainstorms, ๐ŸŸก summaries you can skim-check, ๐Ÿ”ด facts, figures, citations, decisions.
  • Any fact you'll act on gets confirmed somewhere AI didn't write. That's the 2-source rule.
  • "I asked the AI twice" is not two sources.
  • Fear the plausible errors, not the absurd ones โ€” test AI on a topic you know deeply and watch what it gets subtly wrong.
  • For anything time-sensitive, check the date on a real source. AI may be pattern-matching to old news.
  • If you couldn't explain the answer in your own words, don't act on it yet.

Money, health, and the law

Distilled from When a human is non-negotiable

  • Diagnosis, prescriptions, legal exposure, big irreversible money moves: that's a professional, not a chatbot.
  • Do use AI to prep for the professional โ€” your five best questions, the jargon translated in advance.
  • Verify anything bookable before you book it: hours, prices, even whether the place still exists.
  • A crisis โ€” medical, mental health, safety โ€” means a human, now: 911, 988, a real person. Never a chatbot.

Spotting fakes

Distilled from Spotting AI fakes

  • On a suspicious image, check the six tells: hands, text, backgrounds, light, symmetry, too-perfect.
  • Set up a family code word for "it's really me" calls. Two minutes of setup defeats every voice-clone scam ever made.
  • When a claim makes you angry or excited, that's exactly when the 2-source rule applies.
  • Check before you share. The tells will stop working as the technology improves โ€” the habit never will.

Keeping your edge

Distilled from Using AI without losing your edge

  • On skills you're still building, write the first draft yourself โ€” then let AI critique it.
  • Read any AI draft out loud once before sending it to someone important. You own every word you send.
  • If you can't explain the output, don't ship it.
  • Do the final 10% edit yourself. That's where you live.
  • Use AI weekly on real tasks. Comfort comes from use, not theory.

โšก 50 Practical Ways to Use AI

Every lesson here ends with a prompt you can run in the next sixty seconds. This is all of them, organized by what you're trying to do. Copy any prompt into ChatGPT, Claude, or Gemini, fill in the brackets with your real life, and go. When one hooks you, the link takes you to its full lesson.

Start Here: Your First Week with AI

Meet your new thinking partner
Explain [something you've always been curious about] like I'm smart but busy. Then ask me one question to see if I got it.
When AI lies to you (and it will)
Tell me about [a topic you know deeply โ€” your job, your hometown, your hobby]. โ€” Then grade the answer. Find what it got subtly wrong.
AI as your patient tutor
I want to learn [something you named in the Three Things box]. Ask what I already know, then teach me the single most useful next thing, then quiz me.

Write & Communicate

Email triage
Here's a messy situation: [brain-dump it, typos and all]. Write the email I need to send to [person], sounding [tone], under [length].
The hard message
I need to [complain / apologize / say no] to [person] about [situation]. Draft it firm but kind. Then play the other person and give me their most likely reply.
Summarize anything
Here's a long [thread / document]: [paste]. Give me: 1) the 3 things I need to know, 2) anything I need to do, with deadlines.
Cards, toasts & captions
Help me write a [birthday card / toast] for [name]. Three true things about them: [memory 1], [memory 2], [memory 3]. Warm, specific, not sappy.
Translate & simplify
Explain this letter like I'm a smart friend with zero background: [paste]. Then tell me: does anything here need action from me?

Plan & Organize

Vacation planning
Plan a [N]-day trip to [place] for [who's going]. Constraints: [budget, ages, interests, dealbreakers]. Ask me 5 questions before you start.
Meal planning that survives Wednesday
In my fridge/pantry: [list]. Household: [who, pickiness, allergies]. Weeknight cooking time: [X] minutes. Plan 5 dinners and a grocery list sorted by aisle.
The calendar untangler
Here's everything happening in my family over the next two weeks: [dump it]. Find conflicts, tight transitions, and anything I've probably forgotten to plan for.
Big event, small stress
I'm hosting [event] for [N] people on [date]. Build me a backward timeline from today, a task list, and a day-of schedule. Ask about anything you need.
Move, renovate, repair
I'm [moving / renovating X]. Build the step-by-step sequence with rough timing. Then give me 10 questions to ask [movers / contractors] that will reveal problems early.
The weekly reset
Sunday reset. Here's everything on my mind: [dump]. Sort it into: this week (max 5), delegate/ask for help, later, and let it go. Be honest about the last category.

Learn Anything

Pick up a hobby
I want to learn [hobby] from zero. I have [X] minutes a day and [gear I own]. Build a 30-day beginner plan with tiny daily wins. Ask me 3 questions first.
Study smarter
Here are my notes on [topic]: [paste]. Quiz me with 5 questions one at a time. After each answer, tell me what I got wrong and ask a harder follow-up.
Understand the news
Explain the [news story] debate. Give me the strongest honest case FOR each side, in each side's own terms. Don't tell me which is right.
Decode any document
Here's a [lease / benefits summary / letter]: [paste]. 1) Explain it plainly. 2) Flag anything unusual or one-sided. 3) Give me 5 questions to ask before I sign or reply.
Get unstuck
I'm stuck on [problem]. Don't give me solutions yet. Ask me one question at a time until we both understand the real issue. Then, and only then, suggest 3 approaches.

Money & Home

See where it goes
Here's a month of my spending, anonymized: [paste amounts + short descriptions]. Categorize it, total each category, and tell me the 3 most useful observations โ€” kindly but honestly.
A budget that fits your life
Help me build a monthly budget. Income: [X]. Fixed: [list]. Be realistic about my habits: [honest notes]. Then stress-test it: what breaks first if something goes wrong?
Comparison shopping
I'm choosing between [options] for [need + budget]. Build a comparison table on the factors that matter for me: [list]. Then give me 5 questions to ask the seller of each.
Haggle & negotiate
Role-play with me. You're the [cable company retention agent]. I want [outcome]; I'm willing to [walkaway]. Push back like they really do. Afterward, critique my performance.
Big decisions, clear head
I'm deciding between [A] and [B]. Interview me about what matters, then lay out the trade-offs in a table โ€” including the factors I didn't mention but should consider. Don't pick for me.

Make Things

Your first AI image
Create an image: [subject], in the style of [style you like], mood: [mood], for [use]. โ€” Then look at what's wrong with it and say it better.
Your first AI video
Help me storyboard a 30-second video about [occasion/product]: 4 shots, a line of text per shot, and a suggestion for music mood.
A website in an afternoon
I need a simple website for [thing]. Write the 5 sections: headline + intro, about, what I offer, proof or gallery ideas, contact. My details: [describe].
Your first tiny app
Build me a single-file web page that [does one tiny job โ€” split a bill, pick whose turn it is]. Make it work on my phone. I'll tell you what to fix after I try it.
Automate one boring thing
Every week I have to [repetitive task]. Here's an example of the input and what the output should look like: [paste both]. Do this one, then save the instructions so I can reuse them.
From idea to real project
I'm building [project from your Three Things run] this weekend. Break it into steps that each take under an hour. Warn me where beginners usually quit โ€” and how not to.

Small Business Studio

The 10 Hats Audit
Here's everything I did for my business this week: [dump it]. Sort into: my craft, judgment calls, and repetitive work. For each repetitive item, tell me how AI could do the first draft.
Websites without a web guy
[Paste your context card.] Write my website's 5 sections: headline + one-paragraph intro, about, what I offer, proof/testimonial placeholders, contact. Sound like me, not a brochure.
Write like your shop sounds
Here are 3 things I've written that sound like me: [paste]. Describe my voice in 5 traits. Now rewrite this in that voice: [paste something generic].
Customer messages on autopilot (almost)
[Context card.] A customer left this review: [paste]. Draft two replies โ€” one if I want to make it right, one if the review is unfair โ€” both professional, neither defensive.
Paperwork, quotes & invoices
A customer described a job: [transcribe/summarize the voicemail]. Draft a written quote: scope, what's included/excluded, rough timeline, and my standard terms: [terms].
Know your numbers (gently)
Here's 6 months of anonymized sales data: [paste]. What patterns do you see? What are the 3 most useful questions this data raises โ€” and what would I need to answer them?
What NOT to automate
Here's a hard customer situation: [describe]. Don't write the reply. Instead: what's really going on for this customer, what do they need to hear, and what should I make sure NOT to say?

The Honesty Files

Why AI makes things up
Ask AI for 3 published sources on [a niche topic you know]. Then actually look them up. Notice how real the fake ones sounded.
The 2-source rule
Take the last factual claim AI gave you. Set a 60-second timer and verify it: official site, primary source, or a phone call. That's the whole habit.
What AI can't know
Ask your AI app: "What's your knowledge cutoff, what do you remember about me, and where is that stored?" The answer is worth knowing cold.
What not to paste
Before your next paste, do the 3-second scan: names I should remove? numbers that identify anyone? someone else's private info? Redact, then paste.
Spotting AI fakes
Set up a family code word this week for "it's really me" phone calls. Two minutes now; it defeats every voice-clone scam ever made.
When a human is non-negotiable
Before your next appointment (doctor, lawyer, accountant): "Here's my situation: [describe]. Give me the 5 best questions to ask, and explain the terms I'm likely to hear."
Using AI without losing your edge
Next task: write your rough version first, THEN ask AI to critique and improve it. Compare how much you learned versus letting it go first.

Fill in the brackets with your real life โ€” that's the whole trick. When a prompt hooks you, its link goes to the full lesson.

๐Ÿ—“ Your First Week with AI

The Start Here course, reshaped into a plan: one short mission a day for seven days. Each day has one idea to absorb and one thing to actually do in whatever AI app you already have. Print it and check the days off.

Day 1

Meet your new thinking partner

You already have a world-class assistant on your phone. Let's actually meet it.

Today's mission

Explain [something you've always been curious about] like I'm smart but busy. Then ask me one question to see if I got it.

Read the full lesson โ†’

Day 2

The one skill that changes everything: context

The difference between a useless answer and a great one is usually one sentence you didn't type.

Today's mission

I need to write [a real message you owe someone]. Here's the situation: [2 sentences]. Write it in my voice: [friendly / direct / formal]. Keep it under [length].

Read the full lesson โ†’

Day 3

Make it sound like you, not a robot

AI writing has a smell. Here's how to get rid of it.

Today's mission

Here are two emails I've written: [paste]. Learn my voice. Now draft [new email] the way I would write it.

Read the full lesson โ†’

Day 4

When AI lies to you (and it will)

AI will sometimes invent facts, quotes, even court cases โ€” with a straight face. This is the most important lesson on this site.

Today's mission

Tell me about [a topic you know deeply โ€” your job, your hometown, your hobby]. โ€” Then grade the answer. Find what it got subtly wrong.

Read the full lesson โ†’

Day 5

Your first real project: plan something

Let's use everything so far to plan something you actually want to do.

Today's mission

Help me plan [a real thing coming up]. Ask me 5 questions first, then build a plan around my answers.

Read the full lesson โ†’

Day 6

AI as your patient tutor

The best teacher you've ever had never gets tired of your questions. It's in your pocket.

Today's mission

I want to learn [something you named in the Three Things box]. Ask what I already know, then teach me the single most useful next thing, then quiz me.

Read the full lesson โ†’

Day 7

What now? Your personal map

You've got the fundamentals. Now let's point them at your life.

Today's mission

Run the Three Things generator on the homepage โ€” this time with intent.

Read the full lesson โ†’

๐Ÿ” Learn to Iterate Instead of Prompt

Everyone is selling secret prompt formulas. Here's the quiet truth: the people getting the most out of AI aren't writing better first prompts โ€” they're having better conversations. This guide is the whole skill, in five short parts.

The myth of the magic prompt

Prompt formulas treat AI like a vending machine: exact coins in, snack out. But the machine is built for back-and-forth. Say what you want in plain words, look at what comes back, and respond to it. Nobody needs a formula for talking.

The perfect first prompt is a myth. If the first answer misses, you didn't fail โ€” the conversation just started.

The second message matters more than the first

The first answer is a first draft, not a verdict. Say what's wrong with it: too formal, too long, wrong angle, not quite what you meant. Each round takes ten seconds, and the third version is usually the keeper.

Perfectionists craft one perfect prompt. Iterators just start โ€” and win. If you catch yourself rewriting a prompt five times before sending it, stop. Send the rough one. Fixing a real answer is faster than perfecting an imaginary one.

Try it โ€” 60 seconds

Write a short thank-you note to a friend who helped me move. โ€” Now make it warmer. Now make it half as long. Now make it sound like me.

Ask for a bad first draft on purpose

The hardest part of making anything isn't the making โ€” it's the starting. A blank page asks you to create something from nothing, and nothing is heavy.

So don't start with nothing. Ask AI for a rough version of the thing you've been putting off, imperfect on purpose. Now you're not creating, you're editing โ€” and crossing things out is so much easier than conjuring them. The draft is scaffolding, not the building: if you ship the first version untouched, you skipped the part where it becomes yours.

Try it โ€” 60 seconds

Give me a rough first draft of the thing I've been putting off โ€” a letter, a plan, a post. Make it imperfect on purpose. I'll tell you what's wrong, and we'll fix it together.

Stay in the room

At message one, AI knows nothing about you, so you get the generic answer โ€” the one written for everyone. Every message after that teaches it something: your situation, your taste, what you rejected. By message ten it's answering your question, not the internet's average.

So stay in one chat while you work on one thing. The context is the value. And when you switch projects, switch chats โ€” long conversations drift, and old details fade quietly. One thread per thing.

The whole skill in one line

React honestly to what comes back, and keep talking. That's it. That's the thing the prompt-formula sellers don't want to be this simple.

Try it โ€” 60 seconds

Help me think through something on my mind. Ask me two quick questions first, then give me your honest take โ€” and keep it conversational, like we're talking over coffee.

โ“ Ask Better Questions

The difference between a useless answer and a great one is usually one sentence you didn't type. This guide is about that sentence โ€” how to give AI the context it needs, and how to turn it into the most patient tutor you've ever had.

The context sandwich

Ask for "a thank-you note" and you get generic mush. Add who it's for, what happened, and how it should sound, and you get something you'd actually send.

That's the formula: who's involved + what you actually want + how it should feel. It's the whole skill people call prompt engineering โ€” it's just saying what you mean, with the one sentence of context you usually leave out.

Try it โ€” 60 seconds

I need to write [a real message you owe someone]. Here's the situation: [2 sentences]. Write it in my voice: [friendly / direct / formal]. Keep it under [length].

You wouldn't do this to an assistant

Nobody hands a new assistant three keywords and walks away โ€” but that's exactly how most people type into an AI box, because search trained us to. Google finds pages. AI thinks with you.

Tell it who you are, what you're working with, and what you actually need. Then keep going: search-box habits keep you asking tiny questions and settling for the first answer.

Turn it into your tutor

The best teacher you've ever had never gets tired of your questions, and it's in your pocket. The tutor wheel: explain it like I'm new ยท give me an analogy from a world I know ยท show me an example ยท quiz me.

It works on anything โ€” a nutrition label, a mortgage document, the hobby you keep meaning to pick up.

Try it โ€” 60 seconds

I want to learn [something you've been meaning to learn]. Ask what I already know, then teach me the single most useful next thing, then quiz me.

The secret weapon

One question separates people who learn quickly with AI from everyone else: "What do beginners usually get wrong about this?"

It surfaces the trap before you fall in โ€” the misconception, the skipped step, the thing the tidy explanation glossed over. Ask it about every new topic. It never stops paying.

Flip the interview

The best question is often a request for questions. When you don't know where to start, don't guess โ€” make the AI interview you. Its questions pull out context you didn't know you had, and thirty seconds later it's answering the question you actually meant.

One honest limit, from the Honesty Files: a tutor that's wrong 5% of the time is still amazing โ€” as long as you know it's 5%, and cross-check the parts you'll build on.

Try it โ€” 60 seconds

Help me plan [a real thing coming up]. Ask me 5 questions first, then build a plan around my answers.
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